Saturday, August 11, 2018

August 2018

Welcome to our Summer Fun Sibshop. The kids have been requesting slime for months and months.  We adult facilitators finally caved in and decided to give it a try.  Let's just say that our slime making activity was more of a slime making experiment!
While the ingredients were all the same, the execution was not.  We ended up with all sorts of versions of "slime". Bumpy, dry, sticky, putty, watery....You name a variation, we definitely had it!
We did learn that the order of ingredients is especially important as is mixing skill.  Ingrid followed her recipe exactly and produced some super slimey slime! Mission Accomplished!


 In July we had a good discussion activity about things that happen with our siblings that might make us feel "All Fired Up!"  These are events that might cause us to feel angry, upset or annoyed.  We then talked about strategies we can use to "Cool Down" when we are starting to feel some stress.


Here are some things that make our Sibshoppers "All Fired Up!"
Ever since my brother was born, we don't go to fun places anymore.
My sister cries for anything.
When I play with my sister, she gets mad.  But when I have stuff to do, she wants to play.
He cries for everything.
He gets all the attention.
When my brother gets more computer time than me.
He takes my stuff.
He gets to watch TV.
Eats all the food and hogs all the electronics.
Here are some strategies our Sibshoppers identified as possibly being helpful in "Cooling Down."
Go away.
Play with him (the sibling.)
Write in a diary.
Video games
Ask for him to stop.
Take a break and listen to some music.
Talk to my mom about it and she finds a way to make it better.
Know that he's always caring about me and my family.

We wanted to continue our start to this discussion in August at our event so we invited the social worker from Kids On The Move to come talk to the Sibshoppers more in depth about "Cooling Down" strategies.  Jared was great in teaching some strategies to the kids and in letting them practice them as well.
Here Jared is demonstrating a deep breathing technique.  We practiced taking a deep breath in for 4 counts, holding it for 6 counts and then slowing releasing for 8 counts.  A release of breath that is longer than your intake of breath will actually help your body and brain relax.
The kinetic sand was a huge hit with the kids! It is a sensory approach to calming and the kids loved it.  You can add some elements of breathing and clearing one's mind and it is a perfect way to relax and calm.  Put kinetic sand on your Christmas Toy List! 


As always, we love to just have fun and games at each Sibshop.  This activity is called "Keep the Balloon in the Air" and requires one balloon per 2 person team.  The game is simple as you just have to keep the balloon in the air! It does get a little more complicated as you add commands however.  Keep the balloon in the air as you spin around and touch the ground or as you clap hands with your partner.  It gets a little tricky!



"Cups & Downs" is a quick fun game with little to no prep. All one needs is some paper cups and people to play.  Divide into two teams--one team is Up and the other is Down.  You spend two minutes (or more or less) just trying to get all the cups facing the direction you are assigned--either up or down.  It is a frantic game as everyone is trying to get their cups how they want them!

We had some lunch and then went out to enjoy the warm summer weather and play a few water games.  "Roll 6 & Splash" and a Water Balloon Toss kept our Sibshoppers busy and got a few of them quite wet!




Summer fun is never complete without a delicious popsicle!

Saturday, July 14, 2018

July 2018

Welcome to July!
 Expand-a-Picture was our trickle in activity of choice on this warm summer Saturday.  Each Sibshopper choose a paper to complete the drawing. They had to work with what little they were given and create a complete work of art.
 This rocket ship sailed right past the earth and some happy stars as it made its way to the moon.

 The bats on this paper found a friend in a cave but had to protect themselves from frightening forces outside.
 "Annoying Orange!" Of course.
 The wrapped box became a present for delighted 12 year old birthday girl.
 What are these Sibshoppers up to?  They are playing a silly game of "Commons".  Each group identifies three different signs they will make in the circle.  When all four group members make the same sign after the countdown they win a point.  Hard part it, no communicating allowed! You just choose a sign and hope your group chooses the same.

A point for the Dab!
 Our Sibshoppers are experts; their expertise is in being a sibling of a brother or sister with special needs. We read some letters, "Dear Abby" style, asking for advice on how to deal with certain experiences in regards to being a sib.  Our Sibshoppers gave their best advice.  They sure know a lot about handling embarrassment, fear, parents, and friends.

1.) I sang for the Pope in Rome, Italy.
2.) I have fished for Halibut in Alaska.
3.) I broke my collarbone rolling down a hill at Girl Scout Camp.
Can you guess which one is a lie and which 2 are truths? We got to know each other a little better as we played "Two Truths and a Lie."

 "Clothespin Tag" got our blood flowing.  Nothing like running and attempting to grab clothespins off your opponents shirts.  It is way tricky and a great way to get in some cardio.



All that running definitely worked up our appetites.  After lunch we got started on an activity called "All Fired Up/Cool Down."  We'll have more to show you next month as we wrap up this discussion, so stay tuned!

Saturday, June 9, 2018

June 2018

Welcome to our June Sibshop!

Our trickle in activity this go round was to create foil sculptures. The Sibshoppers get some lengths of foil all to their own, some tape, a piece of cardstock and a marker to create whatever their imagination can conjure up.
As always, I find our Sibshoppers to be incredibly creative!


Among other things, we ended up with human figures, dinosaurs, dogs, an octupus and even a burrito!


 The kids got up close and personal playing a silly game called "Freckle Frenzy!" No traditional freckles required. All you need is a partner, a bowl full of fake freckles (just holes punched out of paper) and a tiny bit of water. The goal is to get the greatest number of freckles on your partner's face in the allotted time.






We had a request last month for ice cream sundaes and we happily obliged. (You don't have to twist our arm!) But if we were going to eat some sweet treats, we thought it appropriate to think of some sweet things about our siblings and share them with the group. Identifying three ways in which your sibling is sweet earned you your own delicious ice cream sundae!



We played a couple other games and had another discussion activity that we didn't get pictures of this time around. Sibshops keeps us busy!

Happy Summer Friends!
See you in July.